Top Ten Things You Should Hide From Your Spouse

okay...some might sound just funny but then they might actually save you...winks

10. Facebook password

A meager reason like the password of your social networking account can create problems big enough to make you both drift your ways apart. It is advisable not to share you Facebook, Orkut, Skype or Twitter with your partner. Preserving your password from them will deny them complete access to your to your

privacy anytime. You never know they may misinterpret things.

 Rather the better idea is if

you both sit together sometime with your account logged in before you and you discussing about your online activity in your own words. A little hiding when a lot has been already revealed is not a problem at all especially when it can save a lot of misunderstandings.

9. Your daily frustration Tired after day’s work? Argument with mom or fight with a friend or had a hard time your boss in the office, need not come out with everything in front of your partner. They may be your best friend and you end up feeling great after discussing your problems with them and even though they are ok with it but the truth is they are human like you and you might be troubling them with such petty issues of yours. You can’t run away from the fact that they don’t have solution for each of your problem. So it’s not at

all a good thing to remove your sack of problem from your head and place it on their shoulder. Avoid troubling them with all your daily frustrations; make an attempt to keep some of the tensions to yourself. Talking about problems more often can create negative impact on your relationship.

8. Money can be a trouble honey With both the partners working the probability is quite high that you both may have an unequal salary. If you are the one contributing more to the family income, don’t highlight this

all the time. Do not talk about the incentives or increments every time you receive them. This will not only drag your partner under an inferiority complex but chances are that they may end up pushing all financial

responsibilities of the family at your side. Or the other big mistake people commit is disclosing about debts in front of their partner. They may go crazy thinking that you people have gone bankrupt putting unnecessary burden on your sweetheart. You might tell them about your debt when you have cleared them all. Till then  it’s better to hide it from them.

7. Your friend knows it all? This one’s a big no- no. You are in the habit of sharing the minutest details of anything and everything with that childhood best friend of yours but look around, your partner may not like it. They may feel your private life to be exposed and can feel that you treat them as less important than that friend of yours. So the best thing is to keep the secrets shared between friends a secret. You don’t want your partner to move out embarrassed as soon as that friend of your steps in, right? 

6. Hating their loved ones So do you find their mom troublesome? Or his dad or siblings or friends irritating..? But

shhhh…. Keep your mouth sealed. Never ever

blurt this out in front of your partner even if your

dislike is towards their… dog. How can they

ever like that you don’t find fault with

something/ someone they love so dearly.

Moreover it will create an impact on them that

you don’t approve of their judgments.

5. Aren’t bygones, bygones yet?

Past is the thing which can never be changed

but can always create a problem. Are you still

nursing feelings for your ex? It’s one thing that

you have told them everything about your past

relationship but never ever tell them that you

still feel for your ex. It will be very hard for them

to tolerate this. Don’t discuss that kiss which

went longer than you thought or things you did

for your ex. Never say it in front of your partner

if any of their actions resemble your ex or don’t

talk about anything which you liked about your

ex. Bury all the things about your permanently,

very deep under the ground so that your partner

doesn’t come face to face with them ever.

4. Keep your secret a secret

Not all of us have a past free from scratches.

There may be things you don’t like in your past.

Never ever disclose any such thing, any activity

or about any past experience, to them which

you yourself are guilty about. For if they too

mistook it you will have no way out to defend

yourself and you will be faulty in their eyes

forever. If you will make any attempt to defend

yourself, it will further deteriorate you in their

eyes as they might think you to be two-faced

or your story as an attempt to gain their

sympathy.

3. The huge expectations

This one comes naturally even before you

entered into any relationship. Since a long time

you must have been dreaming about getting

married, having that big house with a king-size

bedroom or starting a family, but keep in mind

you have to keep these hopes and aspiration

under the wrap. People often tend to give vent

to their aspirations very early in their

relationship which can usually scare them off.

Having too many expectations is always wrong

but revealing them all to your partner is very

dangerous. They may feel held back under that

mountain of your expectations. You want to

enjoy your life with them but does it have to be

at the cost of any burden on them?

2. Faults in you

It’s better to hide your faults from. Stop

nagging about your increased weight or hair

fall in front of them. Make a note first of all they

are with you because they are ok with the

things you are talking about, and that’s why

they are with you. May be they haven’t found

anything wrong with you and you are only

drawing their attention towards it. It may be an

attempt from your side to reassure yourself that

they love and appreciate you no matter what,

but you might be giving them a reason to look

down upon you.

1. Secret admirations

Now you must be smart enough to point this

one and must have been waiting for such a

point to come up. It’s always advised to keep

your secret crush a secret from your partner. If

you can’t resist yourself to catch a glimpse of

that girl/ boy in your college or enjoy the

company of that colleague in your office or love

to talk to one of his/ her friends, need not tell

about this to them. It will make them feel

jealous. No matter how good you both

understand each other it will make them feel

insecure at some point of time. You never know

that this might sow a seed of suspicion in their

mind that you are on the track of cheating upon

them. Will you like if your partner is spying on

you?